Challenging Stereotypes: Masculinity and Eating Disorders

For far too long, eating disorders have been stereotypically associated with women, most commonly young women. However, the truth is that eating disorders do not discriminate based on gender, size, sexual orientation, cultural background, age, or ability. Men, too, grapple with these complex mental health conditions, and it's time to break the stigma surrounding men and eating disorders. In this article, we shed light on the prevalence of eating disorders among men, the unique challenges they face, and how we can challenge societal norms to support those in need.

Eating Disorders in Men: The Numbers Speak

Recent statistics from Australia's Butterfly Foundation revealed a significant presence of eating disorders among men. It is estimated that over one-third of eating disorder presentations are seen among men, with 360,131 Australian men living with an eating disorder (Butterfly, 2019).

According to the National Eating Disorders Collaboration, it is estimated that men account for:

• 20% of people in Australia who experience Anorexia Nervosa

• 30% of people in Australia who experience Bulimia Nervosa

• 43% of people in Australia who experience Binge Eating Disorder

• 55-77% of people in Australia who experience Other Specified Feeding or Eating Disorder (OSFED)

• 67% of people in Australia who experience Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID)

Heightened Risk Among Certain Groups

Certain groups of men face a higher risk of developing eating disorders. This includes queer men, transmen, gender diverse groups, and men involved in fields that promote specific body ideals or physiques, such as athletes, bodybuilders, and actors.

Unique Presentations in Men

Eating disorder presentations among men may differ from those commonly associated with women, or they may also be very similar. Men may focus on low body fat and high muscularity as well as weight. They might also be more concerned with high protein foods and counting macros, as well as engaging in excessive or compulsive exercise with an emphasis on muscle appearance. Concepts like ‘bulking’ and ‘shredding’ and the use of supplements and performance-enhancing drugs can also be prevalent.

The Impact of Stigma

Unfortunately, eating disorders among men are often underreported due to the stigma surrounding these conditions. The stigma can lead to a lack of awareness of symptoms, misdiagnosis, delayed diagnosis, difficulty accessing appropriate treatments, and a feeling of exclusion from available treatments.

Cultural Expectations and Norms

Cultural expectations and ideals surrounding body size and appearance can play a significant role in the development of eating disorders among all genders, including men. Society's narrow definition of masculinity, characterised by being muscular, strong, stoic, and independent, contributes to the pressure men face to conform to unrealistic body ideals. ‘Diet culture’ preys on this by promoting fasting, high protein products, and ‘biohacking’ – all of which contribute to the normalisation of disordered eating behaviours and a focus on gaining muscle.

Challenging Stereotypes: Redefining Masculinity

To address the stigma and promote a healthier understanding of masculinity, it’s important that we challenge existing stereotypes and societal norms. Here are some prompts to think differently:

1. Question the origins of the narrow definition of masculinity, and how this impacts the lives of men and masc folk

2. Develop media literacy skills to recognise how masculinity is portrayed

3. Notice how diet culture products are marketed toward men and women

4. Learn about the gendered and socialised nature of emotions

5. Explore and redefine masculinities, encouraging a broader and more inclusive sense of identity

Seeking Help: An Act of Courage

Remember that all people are worthy of support, and seeking treatment is a brave and essential step for anyone struggling with an eating disorder, regardless of gender. At Mind Body Well, our team of Psychologists and Dietitians is here to support you on your journey to a healthier relationship with food, exercise, your body, and identity. We welcome people of all genders, ages, sexual orientations, and cultural backgrounds.

'Wellness' Program or Diet in Disguise?

Intuitive eating and non-diet approaches to weight and nutrition have been gaining popularity as many people elect to step off the dieting treadmill and change their relationship with their body, and their eating attitudes and behaviours. As these approaches have gained momentum however, many diet programs, companies and influencers have begun to co-opt the language of ‘non-dieting’ to mislead people back into the diet cycle. A number of established weight loss companies have re-branded, and new ‘wellness’ programs have emerged, with strong marketing messages about supporting people to make ‘sustainable lifestyle changes’ rather than focusing on weight loss.

However, when you really look at many of these programs it’s clear that they have not really changed their focus, but have instead become traditional diets in disguise – the new breed of diet industry companies. These so called ‘wellness’ programs continue to promote restrictive eating behaviours, encourage people to monitor their weight, and hold at their core the false idea that thinness equates to health - only now with an added side-serve of ‘wellbeing’.

So how can you tell the difference between an actual non-diet approach and a wolf in sheep’s clothing? One of the main differences between dieting and intuitive eating is the focus on weight loss and changes to body shape which are integral to dieting programs. Intuitive eating however is weight neutral, and focused on healing your relationship with food and your body. Intuitive eating is not about weight loss, it won’t ask you to eliminate any foods from your diet, or to label foods as ‘good’ or ‘bad’. Intuitive eating is a not a hunger-and-fullness diet but rather is about unconditional permission to eat all foods, building body trust and eating foods which feel satisfying and enjoyable. Another main difference between intuitive eating and dieting is that intuitive eating has a strong evidence base supporting its effectiveness, compared to traditional diets which are shown to be ineffective for 95% of people (especially in the medium to long term).

This re-branding of weight loss dieting to ‘wellness’ is dangerous and confusing for so many people. This new generation of diets aims to differentiate themselves from traditional diets by claiming that they are not ‘fad diets,’ that they value ‘wellness over weight loss,’ and some even use the language of eating disorder recovery as part of their marketing campaigns. Yet most of these programs continue to focus on food restriction, monitoring or logging what you eat, and weight monitoring. These programs now commonly offer self-care activities ‘on the side’, and may market themselves with health buzzwords or topics such as gut heath or inflammation. They offer a simplistic view of health and wellness, and a narrow assumption that weight loss equals health.

Studies show that weight loss dieting is one of the biggest risk factors for the development of eating disorders and disordered eating. Yo-yo dieting which is characterised by the cyclic nature of losing and re-gaining weight has been shown to have negative effects on physical health and how you feel about your body. Dieting also promotes the development of maladaptive eating behaviours. When our food intake is restricted, food often becomes our focus, which can cause obsessive thinking about food, and can result in either further food restriction, or episodes of reactive binge eating – where the body tries to gain back some of the energy which has become depleted from restrictive eating.

So how can you tell the difference – how can you differentiate a diet in disguise from an approach which is truly focused on enhancing health and wellbeing?

An approach may be a ‘diet in disguise’ if it:

• Encourages you to disconnect from your body by ignoring body signals (including hunger and fullness)

• Is focused on changing your body - weight loss or body shape/size

• Asks you to count points, macros, or uses approaches like a traffic light system

• Uses negative language around ‘good’ and ‘bad’ foods, classifying certain foods as inflammatory, detoxifying, guilt-free, or clean

• Recommends that you restrict or eliminate certain foods or food groups

• Acknowledges that diets don’t work followed by a BUT… (insert dieting behaviour here)

• Causes you to feel preoccupied with food and weight loss

• Recommends you buy expensive supplements or unusual foods

As an alternative to diet industry programs we recommend an individualised and therapeutic approach to understanding your nutritional needs, and changing your relationship with your body. If you’re ready to make this change, the team of Psychologists and Dietitians at Mind Body Well can assist.

If you’d like to find out more about Intuitive Eating, check out our pre-recorded online program (click the image below).

Other relevant Blog posts:

• What is Intuitive Eating?

• Let’s set some perspective on ‘Food Addiction’

• What does it mean to be a Non-Diet Dietitian?

• Breaking up with weight loss